The fear of scarcity

There is no shortage of things that elicit a fear response. Simply turning on the television, opening the newspaper or scrolling through social media channels, you’ll surely suffer ocular whiplash with the number of headlines about the impending doom of nuclear warfare, climate change or civil unrest; however, there’s a seemingly quieter fear lurking just below the surface. A fear that slowly but surely tears … Continue reading The fear of scarcity

If you protect yourself, you’ll never be free

I’ve been dissecting this quote, ad nauseam, for the past year: “If you protect yourself, you’ll never be free” It’s about removing the amor society has conditioned us to wear. It’s about finding the strength in surrender. It’s allowing yourself to be fully seen, heard and affected. It’s about vulnerability.  Admitting you’re afraid. Admitting that you don’t know.  Admitting that you care.  To say the topic … Continue reading If you protect yourself, you’ll never be free

What if the “right time” never comes?

How much time, or how much of our lives, for that matter, do we spend waiting? I’d venture to say…a lot. Waiting creeps its way into the minutiae of our everyday lives, creating innocent lulls in activity while waiting in line for coffee or at a traffic light. Waiting tends to wriggle its way between us and bigger life decisions like waiting for the “right … Continue reading What if the “right time” never comes?

What happens when you start over

When was the last time you pressed the “reset” button? I mean a complete and total reset, leaving behind what’s familiar and being presented with a blank slate. This topic has come up recently with friends both old and new, so through discussion I’ve learned about their experiences navigating what it means to start over. Having uprooted myself seven times and counting, I’ve reflected on … Continue reading What happens when you start over

The case for randomizing our lives

There’s something to be said for routine. Take a generalized work week as an example. For many, it’s the classic: wake up, get ready for work, go to work, work, come home from work, (insert post work activity of choice – hit the gym, family dinner, socialize with friends, etc.) go to bed and repeat. For the most part, it’s predictable. It’s comfortable. It’s efficient … Continue reading The case for randomizing our lives